Healing Relationships: Online therapy in Chicago and couples counseling across Illinois to rebuild trust, intimacy and communication.

Infidelity in a relationship is a difficult process to navigate.
And yet, there is hope.

When Trust Shatters: Finding Your Way After Infidelity

Infidelity Counseling in Chicago

“I feel so broken. I can’t eat. I can’t sleep. I keep playing it over and over in my head. My partner just wants to move on—but how am I supposed to do that when everything I believed in has been turned upside down?”

If you’re here, chances are you’re reeling from the discovery of an affair. Whether it happened weeks ago or months ago, you may still feel like the ground hasn’t stopped shaking beneath your feet.

Maybe your partner is trying to move forward, but you’re still stuck in shock. You lie awake at night scrolling on your phone, zoning out to TV, trying to keep it together for the kids or your job—but inside, your mind won’t stop.

The questions won’t stop.

Infidelity Is a Trauma—Not Just a “Relationship Issue”

Betrayal isn’t just a bump in the road. It hits like a wrecking ball—smashing through the life you thought you had. And the emotional aftermath isn’t just sadness. It’s disorientation, panic, rage, grief, and isolation—all at once.

I work with individuals and couples in Chicago (and all over Illinois via online therapy) who are in this exact place. Many of my clients are professionals, parents, or partners who’ve always held things together… until now.

Maybe you haven’t told anyone yet. Maybe you’re still playing detective, looking for more clues. Maybe you’re numbing out, waiting to feel like yourself again.

You don’t have to stay stuck here. And you don’t have to figure it out alone.


Healing After Infidelity Is Messy—but Possible

This kind of pain doesn’t just go away with time. It needs space. It needs compassion. It needs a safe container where the truth gets to breathe—and where both people (yes, both) can explore what’s next.

In infidelity counseling, we make room for:

  • The pain, confusion, and rage that comes from betrayal

  • The questions and uncertainty about whether to stay or leave

  • The slow rebuilding of trust—if that’s what you choose

  • The truth of your story, not just the surface version

You don’t have to decide everything today. But we can help you get grounded in the present, process the trauma, and start to see a future you can live with—whatever that may look like.


What It’s Like to Work With Me

Clients often tell me, “You really get it.” They describe me as:

  • Patient, honest, and deeply-attuned.

  • Compassionate and emotionally intelligent

  • A clear, direct communicator who’s also easy to talk to

I’m trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and draw from attachment-based, trauma-informed work to guide couples and individuals through the painful—but deeply transformational—work of recovery.

Whether you’re navigating shattered trust, guilt and shame, or the long path back to emotional safety, I meet you with empathy, integrity, and tools that actually help.


I Work With Individuals and Couples in Every Stage of Recovery

Infidelity counseling isn’t one-size-fits-all. I work with people in many different places, including:

  • The aftermath of discovery, when everything feels raw and urgent

  • Couples who are unsure if they want to stay or go

  • Individuals trying to process the betrayal on their own

  • Partners who want to repair—but don’t know how to rebuild trust

You can come in together. You can come in alone. What matters most is that you’re showing up for you.


Online Therapy in Chicago and Across Illinois

Whether you’re in the suburbs like Glenview or Barrington, downtown Chicago, or anywhere else in Illinois, I offer secure online sessions to make getting support easier during this chaotic time. You don’t have to brave traffic or sit in a waiting room. You can show up exactly as you are.


You Deserve a Path Forward

You may not know if your relationship can be saved. You may not even know who you are without this pain yet. But I want you to know that healing is possible—even when it feels impossible.

You can move from spinning to grounded.

From broken to whole.

From betrayed to clear.

Let’s find your way forward—together.


📞 Ready to Talk?

I offer a free 15-minute phone consultation to help you explore whether working together is the right fit. There’s no pressure, no commitment—just a conversation.

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Let’s start where you are.

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